If you are looking for a slower rate of fire, the CF(W) A1 bolt would give around 850 Rounds Per Minute with .380 and 1,000 RPM in 9mm. They are not universal. It is my understanding that because of the slower ROF, the tungsten bolt will run 9mm only in a large magwell M11 and .380 in the small magwell. The small frame M11 mags are not long enough to put 9mm in and the Zmags and Pam 2 mags feed lips are too short to support .380 slowly feeding into the chamber. With a standard steel bolt the Zmags and Pam 2 mags will feed .380. But the slower tungsten bolt .380 feeding from the 9mm mags, has a greater distance from the end of the feed lips to the chamber. With the shorter overall length of .380 the longer distance from the end of the feed lips to the chamber causes FTF stoppages.
You certainly could get a local gunsmith to drill your steel bolt and install some tungsten. What kind of ROF reduction are you looking for? Increasing the mass, lengthening the stroke, and reducing spring rates will all tend to slow ROF. Of course a full auto firearm is a balance of these systems. There needs to be enough energy in the bolt group to cycle. Each one of these things can be adjusted somewhat, but will tend to effect reliability if not factored into the system.
Scott